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What common human activity relaxes tense muscles; reduces blood pressure and
heart rate; exercises the muscles of the face, diaphragm and abdomen; boosts
the immune system; and causes the body to release pain-fighting hormones?
The answer: laughter. Sound impressive? And those are just the physical
benefits. Laughter also helps you get some emotional distance from a
distressing situation and see the humor in it.
Researchers have shown that laughter increases relaxation. Muscle tension
remains low for up to 45 minutes after a session of vigorous laughter. Real
belly laughter can relax the muscles more than a vigorous massage.
If you haven't exercised your humor muscles lately you may benefit from
these tips on getting them in shape: |
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Find
things that make you laugh and do them. See a funny movie, read a funny book
memorize a joke and tell it to friends.
The next
time you're in a distressing situation, mentally put yourself in the shoes
of your favorite comedian. Humor depends on being able to see the humor
where others only see aggravation. It's the difference between tragedy and
comedy.
Allow a
feeling of playfulness to creep into your life. Let your mind be open to
silly and uncensored thoughts. What if everyone came to work wearing Groucho
Marx glasses and a fake moustache?
Amuse
yourself by indulging in humorous exaggeration. Stuck in traffic? Think of
cobwebs forming between your car and the next; continental drift passing you
by, snails overtaking you on the shoulder.
Share
cartoons, jokes and other funny material at work. Put cartoons up on the
bulletin board. By helping others reduce stress you make your own job
easier. And people will just be more relaxed around you if they know you
have a sense of humor.
Get in the
habit of laughing at life's contradictions. You can bet your Groucho Marx
glasses you'll never run out of material.
Finally,
practice laughing at yourself. You just can't help becoming more accepting
of your own shortcomings, and that's a sure-fire stress-buster.
Keep It Light
People will feel safe and comfortable around you if they know you can laugh
- but not if you laugh at them. Humor that is cruel or sarcastic breeds a
negative attitude in both the humorist and the audience. Stay on the light
side. Life is funny enough without resorting to vicious humor.
Rx for Laughter
The next time you're looking for an easy way to relieve stress in your life,
try a dose of laughter. You can get it without a prescription. |